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#1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • Experience the book that started the Quiet Movement and revolutionized how the world sees introverts—and how introverts see themselves—by offering validation, inclusion, and inspiration

“Superbly researched, deeply insightful, and a fascinating read, Quiet is an indispensable resource for anyone who wants to understand the gifts of the introverted half of the population.”—Gretchen Rubin, author of The Happiness Project


NAMED ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR BY PeopleO: The Oprah MagazineChristian Science MonitorInc.Library JournalKirkus Reviews

At least one-third of the people we know are introverts. They are the ones who prefer listening to speaking; who innovate and create but dislike self-promotion; who favor working on their own over working in teams. It is to introverts—Rosa Parks, Chopin, Dr. Seuss, Steve Wozniak—that we owe many of the great contributions to society.
 
In Quiet, Susan Cain argues that we dramatically undervalue introverts and shows how much we lose in doing so. She charts the rise of the Extrovert Ideal throughout the twentieth century and explores how deeply it has come to permeate our culture. She also introduces us to successful introverts—from a witty, high-octane public speaker who recharges in solitude after his talks, to a record-breaking salesman who quietly taps into the power of questions. Passionately argued, impeccably researched, and filled with indelible stories of real people, Quiet has the power to permanently change how we see introverts and, equally important, how they see themselves. 

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“An important book that should embolden anyone who’s ever been told, ‘Speak up!’” People
 
“Cain offers a wealth of useful advice for teachers and parents of introverts. . . . Quiet should interest anyone who cares about how people think, work, and get along, or wonders why the guy in the next cubicle acts that way. It should be required reading for introverts (or their parents) who could use a boost to their self-esteem.” Fortune

“A rich, intelligent book . . . enlightening.” —The Wall Street Journal

“Charm and charisma may be one beau ideal, but backed by first-rate research and her usual savvy, Cain makes a convincing case for the benefits of reserve.” —Harper’s Bazaar

“A smart, lively book about the value of silence and solitude that makes you want to shout from the rooftops. Quiet is an engaging and insightful look into the hearts and minds of those who change the world instead of tweeting about it.” —Daniel Gilbert, professor of psychology, Harvard University, author of Stumbling on Happiness

“As an introvert often called upon to behave like an extrovert, I found the information in this book revealing and helpful. Drawing on neuroscientific research and many case reports, Susan Cain explains the advantages and potentials of introversion and of being quiet in a noisy world.” —Andrew Weil, author of Healthy Aging and Spontaneous Happiness
 
“Those who value a quiet, reflective life will feel a burden lifting from their shoulders as they read Susan Cain’s eloquent and well documented paean to introversion—and will no longer feel guilty or inferior for having made the better choice!” —Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, author of Flow and Distinguished Professor of Psychology and Management, Claremont Graduate University

“Susan Cain has done a superb job of sifting through decades of complex research on introversion, extroversion, and sensitivity—this book will be a boon for the many highly sensitive people who are also introverts.” —Elaine Aron, author of The Highly Sensitive Person

Quiet legitimizes and even celebrates the ‘niche’ that represents half the people in the world.” —Guy Kawasaki, author of Enchantment: The Art of Changing Hearts, Minds, and Actions

“Susan Cain is the definer of a new and valuable paradigm. In this moving and original argument, she makes the case that we are losing immense reserves of talent and vision because of our culture’s overvaluation of extroversion. A startling, important, and readable page-turner that will make quiet people see themselves in a whole new light.” —Naomi Wolf, author of The Beauty Myth

Quiet elevates the conversation about introverts in our outwardly-oriented society to new heights. I think that many introverts will discover that, even though they didn’t know it, they have been waiting for this book all their lives.” —Adam S. McHugh, author of Introverts in the Church

“Gentle is powerful . . . Solitude is socially productive . . . These important counter-intuitive ideas are among the many reasons to take Quiet to a quiet corner and absorb its brilliant, thought-provoking message.” —Rosabeth Moss Kanter, Harvard Business School professor, author of Think Outside the Building
 
“Memo to all you glad-handing, back-slapping, brainstorming masters of the universe out there: Stop networking and talking for a minute and read this book. In Quiet, Susan Cain does an eloquent and powerful job of extolling the virtues of the listeners and the thinkers—the reflective introverts of the world who appreciate that hard problems demand careful thought and who understand that it’s a good idea to know what you want to say before you open your mouth.” —Barry Schwartz, author of The Paradox of Choice
 
“An intriguing and potentially life-altering examination of the human psyche that is sure to benefit both introverts and extroverts alike.” —Kirkus Reviews (starred review)

“Cain gives excellent portraits of a number of introverts and shatters misconceptions. Cain consistently holds the reader’s interest by presenting individual profiles, looking at places dominated by extroverts (Harvard Business School) and introverts (a West Coast retreat center), and reporting on the latest studies. Her diligence, research, and passion for this important topic has richly paid off.” —Publishers Weekly

“This book is a pleasure to read and will make introverts and extroverts alike think twice about the best ways to be themselves and interact with differing personality types.” —Library Journal

“An intelligent and often surprising look at what makes us who we are.” —Booklist

About the Author

Named one of the top ten influencers in the world by LinkedIn, Susan Cain is a renowned speaker and the author of the award-winning books Quiet Power, Quiet Journal, and Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking. Translated into more than forty languages, Quiet has appeared on many “best of” lists, spent more than seven years on the New York Times bestseller list, and was named the #1 best book of the year by Fast Company magazine, which also named Cain one of its Most Creative People in Business.

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Today we make room for a remarkably narrow range of personality styles. We’re told that to be great is to be bold, to be happy is to be sociable. We see ourselves as a nation of extroverts—which means that we’ve lost sight of who we really are. Depending on which study you consult, one third to one half of Americans are introverts—in other words, one out of every two or three people you know. (Given that the United States is among the most extroverted of nations, the number must be at least as high in other parts of the world.) If you’re not an introvert yourself, you are surely raising, managing, married to, or coupled with one.

If these statistics surprise you, that’s probably because so many people pretend to be extroverts. Closet introverts pass undetected on playgrounds, in high school locker rooms, and in the corridors of corporate America. Some fool even themselves, until some life event—a layoff, an empty nest, an inheritance that frees them to spend time as they like—jolts them into taking stock of their true natures. You have only to raise the subject of this book with your friends and acquaintances to find that the most unlikely people consider themselves introverts.

It makes sense that so many introverts hide even from themselves. We live with a value system that I call the Extrovert Ideal—the omnipresent belief that the ideal self is gregarious, alpha, and comfortable in the spotlight. The archetypal extrovert prefers action to contemplation, risk-taking to heed-taking, certainty to doubt. He favors quick decisions, even at the risk of being wrong. She works well in teams and socializes in groups. We like to think that we value individuality, but all too often we admire one type of individual—the kind who’s comfortable “putting himself out there.” Sure, we allow technologically gifted loners who launch companies in garages to have any personality they please, but they are the exceptions, not the rule, and our tolerance extends mainly to those who get fabulously wealthy or hold the promise of doing so.

Introversion—along with its cousins sensitivity, seriousness, and shyness—is now a second-class personality trait, somewhere between a disappointment and a pathology. Introverts living under the Extrovert Ideal are like women in a man’s world, discounted because of a trait that goes to the core of who they are. Extroversion is an enormously appealing personality style, but we’ve turned it into an oppressive standard to which most of us feel we must conform.

The Extrovert Ideal has been documented in many studies, though this research has never been grouped under a single name. Talkative people, for example, are rated as smarter, better-looking, more interesting, and more desirable as friends. Velocity of speech counts as well as volume: we rank fast talkers as more competent and likable than slow ones. The same dynamics apply in groups, where research shows that the voluble are considered smarter than the reticent—even though there’s zero correlation between the gift of gab and good ideas. Even the word introvert is stigmatized—one informal study, by psychologist Laurie Helgoe, found that introverts described their own physical appearance in vivid language ( “green-blue eyes,” “exotic,” “high cheekbones”), but when asked to describe generic introverts they drew a bland and distasteful picture (“ungainly,” “neutral colors,” “skin problems”).

But we make a grave mistake to embrace the Extrovert Ideal so unthinkingly. Some of our greatest ideas, art, and inventions—from the theory of evolution to van Gogh’s sunflowers to the personal computer—came from quiet and cerebral people who knew how to tune in to their inner worlds and the treasures to be found there.

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Karen Hall
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This Book Saved My Life. Not An Exaggeration.
Reviewed in the United States on November 10, 2014
I believe this book saved my life. I''m not prone to melodrama, or to such excessively long reviews, but this is true, and so important to me, I have to say it. I''ve been working for years in an extremely busy law office. It''s been growing harder and harder throughout the... See more
I believe this book saved my life. I''m not prone to melodrama, or to such excessively long reviews, but this is true, and so important to me, I have to say it. I''ve been working for years in an extremely busy law office. It''s been growing harder and harder throughout the years for me to handle this job. Two months ago my boss fired my coworker, and I''ve since had to take on two people''s work plus train multiple new people (as the first two didn''t stay), all with constant, all day long interruptions, high-intensity demands, and a high level of multitasking. This has happened many times before, and while it was dreadful, I managed, but for some reason this time I just couldn''t handle it. My entire life has been on hold since this started, I get home from work too exhausted to do anything except veg out for a couple hours and go to bed, and even weekends aren''t much better. I was taking terrible care of myself and my life was falling apart. I did, in fact, feel like I was killing myself with this lifestyle, but I simply did not have the energy to fix any of it, or for that matter have any idea how to fix it.

I blamed myself - there must be something `wrong with me'' because I can''t handle the job. I wanted to leave, but thought, if I can''t handle this job, how am I going to handle a new job? It''ll probably be more of the same. I thought I was just getting soft because I was getting older (I''m in my late 40s).

I''ve always known I was introverted, but I didn''t realize just what all that entailed - I thought it mostly meant `shy'' or that I didn''t like social settings.

This book taught me more about myself than I''ve ever known. It read like my biography. Almost every page had a new insight into why I think and feel the way I do. Throughout the book I saw my very own self described in new and empowering ways.

I learned that the job situation I''m currently in - the non-stop deadline demands, interruptions, never being able to work quietly or alone no matter how difficult a project was, phones ringing incessantly, people in my face all day long, etc. - especially when it''s work that I actually don''t care anything about personally - those are the exact circumstances that trip every one of a strong introvert''s triggers. And I was subjecting myself to it 40 hours a week, for months.

It''s no wonder I was so miserable and completely exhausted all the time. And as enlightening as it was to learn how many of the traits I''ve beat myself up for over the years are just a product of my introverted temperament (being highly sensitive, shutting down when subjected to stimulation overload, preferring to think a thing through before I speak - something I never get to do at work, as if it takes me more than 5 seconds to say something, I get interrupted and cut off), the most important thing I got from this book is that it''s okay to be myself, it''s okay to feel the way I do. There is not something `wrong with me'' that I have to `fix.'' I am not weak or a failure because I don''t feel or behave like my extremely extroverted boss (who thrives in high-energy crisis mode, and is bored unless he''s doing 10 things at once - and expects the rest of us to keep up).

And far from it being an age-related `going soft,'' what''s probably in fact going on is that as I get older, it is becoming increasingly vital to me to be truer to myself.

I also found the information on the history of the "rise of the Culture of Personality" completely fascinating, it really gave me a new insight as to just exactly how we ''grew'' this tendency to value extroversion over introversion. It makes so much more sense now.

This book gave me the courage I needed to start taking the steps to fix my work situation. Not only the courage, but the `permission'' and the understanding - because I now know there isn''t something wrong with me, but instead this is what I need to do to be my best self, and stop killing myself with stress. That I probably can find a place of value in the world by being myself, not trying to force myself to be something I''m not. I know I will meet resistance from my boss (I''d love for him to read this book, but unfortunately I know he won''t), and I know I won''t instantly fix everything in one day, and that I''ll probably always need to be able to stretch myself a bit to do things that are not ideal for me ... but this book taught me that there are ways to make that work, too, if you understand and honor the need for recharging around such tasks, instead of trying to force yourself to do them 8 hours a day with no break. It doesn''t have to be all or nothing, in either direction. Basically, I''m not out of the woods yet, but I now see the path out, and I have hope.

I think every introvert should read this book, because it will help you understand why you are who you are, and why that''s a beautiful thing, not a character flaw. And I think everyone who knows an introvert should read this book, and quit trying to "fix us."

Which means pretty much the entire country (or world) should read this book. The wealth of information and insights in this book cannot be overstated - especially if you are an introverted type of person who has always felt there was something not quite right about you, or that you somehow needed to change to fit in or succeed. This book will give you back yourself, and in my case, my life. Thank you, Susan Cain, from the bottom of my heart (which is finally beating at a more normal speed because I''m not panicked about going to work for the first time in months).

Edited 11-13-14: It worked! I''m now working half-days at the office and half-days at home, and in a few weeks will transition to working from home full time. I never imagined that could happen. It''s amazing what becomes possible when you finally realize you deserve what you already knew you needed.
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Shweet Potato
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This book allowed me to finally accept myself. I''m not broken... just an introvert!
Reviewed in the United States on December 20, 2017
I want to express gratitude to Ms. Cain for she has made it officially OK to be me. All my life, I''ve had this intangible feeling of being ‘wrong’ or ‘flawed’, or at the very least a minority in every walk of life. Only after my brother recommended this book to me do I... See more
I want to express gratitude to Ms. Cain for she has made it officially OK to be me. All my life, I''ve had this intangible feeling of being ‘wrong’ or ‘flawed’, or at the very least a minority in every walk of life. Only after my brother recommended this book to me do I finally feel worthy and acceptable (even, dare I say, valuable) for being an introspective person who thinks before speaking or taking action. I am not ‘weird’ or ‘shy’ or ‘anti-social’ as I have been labeled since childhood.
Please forgive me for being too upfront or dramatic, but to put things in perspective I have made repeated attempts on my own life over the last 20 years and, not surprisingly, been plagued by severe, chronic, and recurrent depression and anxiety since early childhood. I believe this book has been a major turning point for me. No longer do I see myself as ‘broken’, ‘sick’, or ’hopeless’, but just an introvert in an extrovert''s world. Since reading it, my mental health has improved drastically. And while I''ll always have the tendency to be hard on myself, this book and its insights have allowed me to grant myself some compassion and room to breathe. Now I see my biggest ailment all along has been trying to fit into patterns of behavior which were fundamentally against my nature.
A prime example from my life: I called myself weak if I had trouble working 50+ hours a week the way my peers seemed to do without problem. Then, just to meet expectations, I would force myself to go out after work with the same coworkers I had just spent all day around when what I truly wanted was time alone in order to decompress. What happened over and over again is I would push myself until I developed migraines or other physical symptoms. I ignored my body''s signals, believed it was possible to deny my needs, and thought that pushing through the pain would be rewarded. No wonder I was so unhappy. If I feel like this, I know there must be others who do too.
The research cited in this book show there are clear neurological differences in the way introverted brains process sensory information. Those findings told me that I truly am hard-wired this way. If the way I take in the world cannot ever be changed, then it''s up to me to find the grace to say “This is just the way I am.”
Today I realize I cannot change who I am at the core, but I can learn to love myself. It is also my duty to navigate through life in ways that are sustainable and healthy for me, and to disregard the ‘shoulds’ which were making me ill. We of this personality type can not only improve our own existences, but also possess the ability to make the world better and more well-rounded. Indeed, society can benefit from our unique perspective if it would only take the time to listen to our carefully-formulated and often soft-spoken contributions.
So far I don''t yet have a success story of how I have used this knowledge of myself to bring me from rags to riches. But I have moved away from traditional employment to more freelance work and flexible telecommuting positions. I hope that armed with this newfound self-acceptance I will eventually be able to make my introversion work for me, rather than pressuring myself to ''succeed'' in spite of this trait. I guess I need to change my definition of success from financial wealth and externally recognized achievements, to one that centers around my internal balance and contentment day-to-day. I’m still a work in progress.
For now, I try to do my part by reaching out to fellow introverts, recommending this book, and letting them know I find them beautiful just the way they are. And I make sure to plan alone time into my days and activities in order to maintain my mental stability.
My wish for everyone who feels like an outsider is to read this book. Chances are you''re just an introvert and either don''t know it, or have been taught that extroversion is the only way. Once you become comfortable with yourself, the world and its possibilities will open up. Please read this book.
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B. J. Ford
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Use of "introvert" label isn''t entirely convincing
Reviewed in the United States on December 1, 2018
Susan Cain''s book titled "Quiet" is fine, as long as you accept her definition of an "introvert" as simply being someone who functions better with lower levels of stimulation, including social. I''m not a fan of labels to begin with, but that''s a pretty broad umbrella to... See more
Susan Cain''s book titled "Quiet" is fine, as long as you accept her definition of an "introvert" as simply being someone who functions better with lower levels of stimulation, including social. I''m not a fan of labels to begin with, but that''s a pretty broad umbrella to group people under, and she almost makes "extroversion" sound like a synonym for "obnoxiousness", "shallowness", "superficiality", or "stupidity". Cain claims "shy" is different than introversion because shyness is "fear of social judgment" -- so why emphasize the importance of making introverts feel accepted and valued? The introverts I know couldn''t care less about approval. Cain''s suggestions for making workplaces and schools more pleasant environments for "introverts" are all well and good, but sound a bit self-indulgent or like luxuries that many institutions may be unwilling or unable to provide, because of limitations of time, budget, space, resources, etc., or just because all institutions are based on some form of inequality which inevitably leaves some feeling as if they''re treated unfairly if their preferences aren''t indulged or accommodated....who knows. The observation that a lot of people won''t thrive in overwhelming environments, or in institutional or corporate structures, or even in relationships with other people, is just not terribly groundbreaking -- that''s why people always have, and always will, find fulfillment in other areas of their lives. Cain writes about the power of quiet, but seems to regard introverts as having some kind of special fragility that demands coddling. It seems to me all one really has a right to expect is for people to just do the best they can in a crowded imperfect world that can be very tough for everyone: a simple difficult life is probably preferable to a complicated easy one...I did enjoy the author''s description of the cultural evolution from valuing character to valuing personality, but enough naval-gazing already.
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David Sanford
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Susan, please write a new book helping jabberwockies like me...
Reviewed in the United States on May 25, 2017
Most of my friends see me as an extrovert (or, what the literature calls an extravert). I''m not. Instead, I''m a deeply introverted individual. True, I worked hard to become a learned extrovert (the happiest people on the planet, by the way). Ironically, I worked way too... See more
Most of my friends see me as an extrovert (or, what the literature calls an extravert). I''m not. Instead, I''m a deeply introverted individual. True, I worked hard to become a learned extrovert (the happiest people on the planet, by the way). Ironically, I worked way too hard, especially from 2003 to 2008. Eventually, it became extremely hard for me to be quiet around others. No wonder most of my friends say there''s no way I could be a deeply introverted individual. In the opening chapters of her acclaimed book, QUIET, Susan Cain "proves" my secret identity is my real identity. If only she would write a new book helping jabberwockies like me learn how to be quiet around others, again. In the meantime, if you haven''t read QUIET, please do. You''ll benefit. Your family will benefit. Your friends and colleagues will benefit. Highly recommended!
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RM
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Misguiding title
Reviewed in the United States on February 15, 2019
I got the impression that the author would tell me more all about introverts and it is okay to be one. . But it is only in the beginning that it talks about introversion and most of the latter chapters talks about adopting an extrovert lifestyle. I as an introvert is... See more
I got the impression that the author would tell me more all about introverts and it is okay to be one. . But it is only in the beginning that it talks about introversion and most of the latter chapters talks about adopting an extrovert lifestyle. I as an introvert is incapable of being an extrovert. I lived with atrial fibrillation from a very young age. It restricts me physically from living a high energy lifestyle even if I really wanted to participate in it. So don''t think, this authors will help introvert be introverts. This book will not make you feel right being an introvert.
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Molly Ciliberti
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Fraud, worst book about introverts ever
Reviewed in the United States on July 27, 2019
As an introverts introvert, I hated this book and every condescending word in it. Susan Cain is going to help you be more like extroverts. She is full of you know what. There is nothing wrong with being an introvert, to be happy alone, to enjoy quiet, and to be at peace... See more
As an introverts introvert, I hated this book and every condescending word in it. Susan Cain is going to help you be more like extroverts. She is full of you know what. There is nothing wrong with being an introvert, to be happy alone, to enjoy quiet, and to be at peace with oneself. She knows nothing about us but will tell us how we should be to get along in an extroverted society. No thanks. I will find a good book and cuddle with my cats alone.
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WhoopieDoodle
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A Wealth of Knowledge!
Reviewed in the United States on October 12, 2018
I loved the book......well written, excellent editing, well researched and documented....with life enhancing elucidations. I''m a 58 y/o, clever, handsome, conscientious, well read, well mannered guy who has been treated like a social pariah for my entire life. Somehow, by... See more
I loved the book......well written, excellent editing, well researched and documented....with life enhancing elucidations. I''m a 58 y/o, clever, handsome, conscientious, well read, well mannered guy who has been treated like a social pariah for my entire life. Somehow, by a strange twist of fate, I was born into a family of extroverts, married an extrovert, married into a family of extroverts and worked in fields dominated by extroverts. Needless to say, my social feedback loop consisted of constant criticism for not being like everyone else; be an extrovert of course and I was miserable living this shallow life. After 55 exhausting years of existing (not living), I gave myself the permission to leave these social circles, in hopes of finding some modicum of social harmony, in this, the last chapter of my life. And indeed I did find social harmony and a much improved standard of living. My life changes were deep in progress before I read "Quiet" but, the book gave me the validation needed to foster contentment in my new found life direction. While this book does give the introvert expert answers to the subtle and not so subtle differences between the the "VERTS", it beautifully drills down into the fundamental cultural workings of our world society....with all the infinite clusters of social subdivisions. This world is built on selling....selling goods, services and most importantly, IDEAS. It''s the informed person that makes the better choices of what to buy into and what to avoid. Knowing yourself, your strengths and your limitations are crucial to determining personal NEEDS........which is the most fundamental building block underpinning a satisfying life. It''s the person who plays to their own strengths, that wins the day! Quiet is a book that creates a strategy and fosters the opportunity for one to create a roadmap to social success.....and personal contentment. My humble thanks to the author for her efforts'' which enhanced my life so very much.
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Alexander F. Heyne
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Want your family/friends to actually get you? Give them this.
Reviewed in the United States on October 8, 2015
This is the book I wish all my friends and family (and girlfriend) would read to understand how I actually work. It''s hard to explain, this introvert business. People don''t get why: - I hate malls - I get exhausted after amusement parks... See more
This is the book I wish all my friends and family (and girlfriend) would read to understand how I actually work.

It''s hard to explain, this introvert business.

People don''t get why:
- I hate malls
- I get exhausted after amusement parks
- I spend most of my day alone
- Small talk makes me want to stab forks into my eyes
- I don''t have a lot of friends, and I''m okay with it
- You can find me reading in a cafe on a Friday night... and not because I''m depressed
- I hate networking
- Sometimes I go into moods where I don''t want to see people for a week, or a few - and no, I don''t hate them

It''s almost like THE manual.

Part of the book basically describes us - how we work.

And the other part is really interesting since it covers the strengths and "counterpoints" of being an introvert. It talks about how introverts make great leaders, are capable of lots more empathy, and get people on a different level than extroverts.

To be honest, before I read this book I don''t think anyone really did a good job of talking about WHO WE ARE (I''m starting to sound like a cult leader here), how we''re different, and why that''s a good thing.

A book that the world definitely needed.

-Alexander Heyne, author of the book Master The Day: Eat, Move and Live Better With The Power of Tiny Habits
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SAINATH REDDY
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IT SPEAKS BEHALF OF QUIET PEOPLE
Reviewed in India on March 29, 2019
I am an introvert. I have been struggling my entire life to know what am I why am I behaving in the way which is uncomfortable and felt like an alien around cheerful, outgoing and talkative people. I have faced a lot of people asking the same questions repeatedly like Why...See more
I am an introvert. I have been struggling my entire life to know what am I why am I behaving in the way which is uncomfortable and felt like an alien around cheerful, outgoing and talkative people. I have faced a lot of people asking the same questions repeatedly like Why are so quiet? What are you thinking the whole time? What will you do at home the whole day? Why don''t you mingle with all in any kind of gatherings? You look so serious is there any problem? And in addition to this, I experience a distressing and weird reaction of my hand getting sweat and hearing my own heartbeat whenever I stand up in my classroom to speak up feeling overwhelmed while entering a shopping mall or a public market. These are the questions and experiences faced and felt for which I don''t any kind of answer. So I started to search on the internet and even had a thought of consulting a psychiatrist but I didn''t. In the process, I came to know the people who are quiet, shy, solitary, etc are considered as a category called introverts. From then I have been searching to know more about introverts like articles, videos, books, etc. I have watched Susan Cain''s Ted talk and longed to read this book. After reading this book I have an answer to all my questions and struggles personally experienced. The book was well written. It gives us a detailed history of America on how the culture of outgoing, assertive, showmanship prevailed during the 20th century. It tells us the transformation of the culture of character to the culture of personality in a short period. It bursts the myth of charismatic leadership that even quiet people who think before they speak can be good leaders in their own ways. Extroverts and Introverts have their own pros and cons in every position in life and society. The second part goes into the brains of introverted kids and tries to explore the reasons for introverted behavior whether it depends on the nature of their mind or can be nurtured while growing depending on their environments. The next part describes us about relationships with introverts as it is said that for every three people there is one introvert so it can be your partner, brother, sister, friend and children. It gives a detailed description and advice on how to understand and empathize with your relationships. It is a Good Book and a definite read for everyone to understand the people around you because one third to half the world''s population are introverts. It answered all my questions about my personality, I kind of felt normal not an alien😁 anymore after reading this book.
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How this book changed my relationship with my daughter
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on September 17, 2018
Our society has placed extroverts as a golden standard: parents, school and employers expect a child/a person to be outgoing, confident and sociable. Contributing to the discussions, taking an initiative, competitiveness and be good at public speaking seem to be a must for...See more
Our society has placed extroverts as a golden standard: parents, school and employers expect a child/a person to be outgoing, confident and sociable. Contributing to the discussions, taking an initiative, competitiveness and be good at public speaking seem to be a must for a bright future. What if your child is an introvert and does not like to be in the centre of public attention, prefers to have a deeper relationship with a smaller group of friends and occasionally needs to recharge the energy level by being on his/her own? My daughter turned 8 this week and she did not want to have any birthday party. She does not enjoy competitions, she is uncomfortable joining new groups and takes her time to make new friends. She enjoys playing imaginary games or reading a book. At the same time, when at home or with a small group of friends, my daughter is a bubbly, chatty girl. As a (mostly) extrovert mum, I have made my share of mistakes with my child. When adults try to talk to my daughter and she does not reply, I jump in with the comment, “She is shy”. Worth of it, I would push my daughter to talk to adults (like ordering in the restaurants) to the extent that she would get so nervous and get a tick. That made me stop and think. I started to look for help in some books and , luckily, I came across a wonderful book by Susan Cain, Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop. The book does not only explain the nature of introverts and helps to understand their character better, but also gives practical advice how to make sure you help introverts not to go against their nature but let them flourish in the culture of extroverts. Thank you Ms Cain for such a wonderful gift to the parents!
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Interesting, thoughtful, readable and inspiring – the kind of book that leaves you thinking about it
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on October 16, 2017
I absolutely love this book. It’s the kind of book that you read and find yourself nodding along to, and then thinking about during the day, and then realising this example fits here and that situation is like that, and oh! That’s why…. The writing is an excellent mix...See more
I absolutely love this book. It’s the kind of book that you read and find yourself nodding along to, and then thinking about during the day, and then realising this example fits here and that situation is like that, and oh! That’s why…. The writing is an excellent mix between research, case studies and thoughtful conclusions, all balanced so it never feels boring or overwhelming. There is a section of endnotes, and because I was reading the Kindle version, the notes were all linked – if you click on the note, it takes you to the endnotes with a longer explanation! I get happy about the little things. The ideas are also incredibly interesting. Not everything will apply to all introverts, but I’d recommend this book to anyone – it’s really interesting to be challenged on how I view the world from an introvert perspective (like arguing – raising your voice means an attack! But for extroverts, it’s a sign of passion and involvement) and it’s really interesting to realise how those difference shape society and interactions with others. It’s also so, so reassuring. This is me. This is some reasons why I might do the things I do, why I don’t like parties in a certain format, why I need down time when other people don’t. It’s being reminded that it’s ok to be different, and that actually there are other people out there who are similar – even if I live and work in a world that seems full of extroverts, it’s ok to need alone time, and that my strengths don’t have to lie in the same things – listening, thoughtfulness and consideration are all important, even if they come at a cost of an immediate answer or participation in small-talk. It was also reassuring to realise that being able to extrovert on occasion is normal – it just comes at more of a cost to introverts than it does to extroverts! Interesting, thoughtful, readable and inspiring – the kind of book that leaves you thinking about it a long time after you’ve shut it.
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GeekyPixie
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Insightful and valuable, life-changing book for the struggling introvert
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on January 7, 2019
Firstly, if you don''t read the rest of this review, I just want to say: if you are an introvert, buy this book right now. You won''t regret it. I got this book on a recommendation on a forum where I was researching about how to be more confident a person. I''ve been...See more
Firstly, if you don''t read the rest of this review, I just want to say: if you are an introvert, buy this book right now. You won''t regret it. I got this book on a recommendation on a forum where I was researching about how to be more confident a person. I''ve been struggling recently, becoming more senior in my role at work and so have felt pressured to be more comfortable in my own skin and get my ideas across in a way that people listen. It just doesn''t come naturally to me, and I was starting to judge myself for it and feel like I wasn''t good enough because everybody expects you to be a particular way. Well, after reading this book, I would challenge anybody who makes me feel like it''s not okay to be the way I am and would explain that even though I am quiet, the world still needs people like me just as much as it needs people that can grab attention from everybody in a room. And I also understand that even though I might need to be a "pseudo-extrovert" at times and can learn how to be good at public speaking and will still need to put myself in uncomfortable situations for the sake of things I believe in, I still need down-time and respect the fact that I am happiest when I have time to recharge at home or spend time with my family in a calm and cosy setting. I also think this book will help me when I have children in making sure that whether I have an introverted or extroverted child, they have all the support they can from me no matter what. Susan Cain has an amazing writing style and I''ve never been kept interested to read a book like this from start to finish, as it has a lot of references to studies and usually I find this quite boring in other non-fiction books to do with health. But she keeps you involved, and forever writes about things that I''m guessing a lot of people can relate to whilst you carry on reading. She also reflects on a lot of experiences she''s had with various people - again, something I don''t usually enjoy, but it is written so well that I was never bored for a moment. The book is quite long and has smaller writing than a lot of books I read, but honestly - read it. If you class yourself as an introvert, just buy it. It will change your life.
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Not for your average introvert
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on February 15, 2019
Fairly interesting, with a few a-ha moments but too arm''s length for me, too many boring case studies and most of them concerning pretty high-powered people in situations to which I couldn''t relate. Not much here for your everyday introvert trying to be heard and accepted -...See more
Fairly interesting, with a few a-ha moments but too arm''s length for me, too many boring case studies and most of them concerning pretty high-powered people in situations to which I couldn''t relate. Not much here for your everyday introvert trying to be heard and accepted - or, at least, not misunderstood and insulted - in a world full of extroverts. Left me feeling that if you''re not a Steve Wozniak, Eleanor Roosevelt, Albert Einstein, J K Rowling or Ghandi, you fall outside Susan Cain''s radar and that insults less accomplished introverts in the way that ordinary disabled people are sometimes insulted for not being Paralympians. She self-references a lot in this book and that underscores the feeling of it being only for ''introverts-like-us''. A work of academic interest, I suppose, but not designed to equip your average introvert for a world that doesn''t, by and large, understand or accept them.
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